How to Know: Should You Stay or Go (“I am more important than…”) – 4.18S

How do you know if you should stay or go? And what would cause Lori to say, “I am more important than ___”? We discuss those topics with author and coach, Matthew Fray, as well as what if he never gets it?

TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to be taken to that section)

0:00 Intro
0:15 What Matt would have told Jay and Lori to do back then
1:24 One Solution: Where to draw the line between staying or going? *
4:22 One Solution: Support network (and being validated) *
5:54 The guy may eventually ‘get it,’ but if not…
7:24 Not advocating for divorce, but health *
8:28 “I am more important than my marriage”
9:44 In the next episode: 2 Values / 2 Other Addictions

https://thecouplecure.com – Jay and Lori’s website
https://matthewfray.com – Matthew Fray’s website
https://pornpainhealed.com – Lori’s site for betrayed partners
https://porniskillingme.com – Jay’s site for porn addiction recovery

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#relationships
#pornaddiction
#marriageadvice

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  • Jay and Lori

    With over 25 years of researching best practices and a high success rate, this is a place to heal and grow your relationship--to recover from betrayal, lying, mistreatment and broken trust. Trauma-Trained Certified Mentors, Jay and Lori Pyatt have a unique approach to porn addiction recovery, the trauma of betrayal, and rebuilding trust to give you hope. Gain tips on Betrayal Trauma, Narcissism/Abuse, Lying/Omitting Truth, Porn Addiction, and ways to rebuild trust and live healthy lives.

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