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If someone in your life says THEY CAN’T HELP HOW THEY ACT in relationship because of what happened to them in the past, we cover one way to tell, and offer a few solutions.
Note: while this video is in response to someone’s question about their husband [after a CSAT said ‘disclosure would be a waste of time,’] the concepts can be used in your other relationships as well.
Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
0:07 Question: Disclosure a WASTE OF TIME due to…? (“EMOTIONAL INVALID”)
0:55 I explain EMPATHY Daily / I carry the load
1:15 Answer on having to explain EMPATHY
1:42 Solution: If counselor says DISCLOSURE is a waste of time
2:05 Solution: HOW TO KNOW if his past trauma halts your healing
3:00 Jay used past trauma to deflect (EMOTIONAL HIJACKING)
3:24 The more he feels REAL FEELINGS…
3:54 Answer regarding If he does have childhood trauma
4:31 Solution & THE KEY SIGN for Lori
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https://thecouplecure.com/contact-me/ – Jay and Lori’s website
https://pornpainhealed.com/contact-me/ – Lori’s site for betrayed partners
https://porniskillingme.com/contact-me/ – Jay’s site for porn addiction recovery
#betrayal
#relationships
#pornaddiction
#marriageadvice
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