One Thing Some Guys Resent (ways to build trust instead) – 4.24S

Transitioning from dating to marriage has its challenges, even without addictions. But healing a relationship after betrayal is even more challenging. Here are some things you can do to make the process easier–without resenting your spouse–especially if you’re trying to rebuild trust.

TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to be taken to that section)

0:00 Intro
0:11 It doesn’t take much
1:06 What some guys resent
1:46 The counselor told Jay, “You can’t crank her up like a machine and expect…”
2:14 What Matt thought marriage would be like (dating) *
2:50 One Solution: If he had continued dating his wife
3:40 Being intentional about continuing to date each other *
4:00 How a “perceived lack of finances” can impact relationships
4:56 Solutions to a lack of finances while rebuilding trust *
7:02 $7 cheese and other trees
9:09 In the next episode: How to rebuild trust when you feel attacked

https://thecouplecure.com – Jay and Lori’s website
https://matthewfray.com – Matthew Fray’s website
https://pornpainhealed.com – Lori’s site for betrayed partners
https://porniskillingme.com – Jay’s site for porn addiction recovery

#betrayal
#relationships
#pornaddiction
#marriageadvice

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  • Jay and Lori

    With over 25 years of researching best practices and a high success rate, this is a place to heal and grow your relationship--to recover from betrayal, lying, mistreatment and broken trust. Trauma-Trained Certified Mentors, Jay and Lori Pyatt have a unique approach to porn addiction recovery, the trauma of betrayal, and rebuilding trust to give you hope. Gain tips on Betrayal Trauma, Narcissism/Abuse, Lying/Omitting Truth, Porn Addiction, and ways to rebuild trust and live healthy lives.

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