How do I Forgive with All these Intrusive Thoughts? (healing for the “Drama Queen” label) – 5.20S

If you have ever been called a Drama Queen, this episode may help heal the sting of that label. But first, Jay and Lori tackle the issue of being flooded with bad memories right as you get close to forgiving him—even if your relationship has healed the broken trust.

TIMESTAMPS
0:00 Intro & Question
0:52 Forgiving unrepentance?
1:41 Guys, if someone is against you…
2:35 Solution: Do these things proactively
3:25 Staying near him?
4:18 Intrusive Thoughts
5:05 Like-minded women
6:05 “But she has to forgive me” (A Solution)
6:58 Why intrusive thoughts remain (a question to ask)
7:58 Unsure of your response?
8:32 Is he sure he can stay sober? (his childhood)
9:53 When peace can trigger us
11:49 The “Drama Queen” label

https://thecouplecure.com/contact-me/ – Jay and Lori’s website
https://pornpainhealed.com/contact-me/ – Lori’s site for betrayed partners
https://porniskillingme.com/contact-me/ – Jay’s site for porn addiction recovery

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#pornaddiction
#marriageadvice

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    With over 25 years of researching best practices and a high success rate, this is a place to heal and grow your relationship--to recover from betrayal, lying, mistreatment and broken trust. Trauma-Trained Certified Mentors, Jay and Lori Pyatt have a unique approach to porn addiction recovery, the trauma of betrayal, and rebuilding trust to give you hope. Gain tips on Betrayal Trauma, Narcissism/Abuse, Lying/Omitting Truth, Porn Addiction, and ways to rebuild trust and live healthy lives.

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