How to Rebuild Trust When He Feels Attacked (“this is stupid”) – 4.25S

What caused Jay to take all of this more seriously (even if he felt attacked)? And what would cause Matt to say, “This is stupid!” We cover both of those here, in this LAST EPISODE OF THE SEASON.

TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to be taken to that section)

0:00 Intro
0:19 Did Jay feel like doing those things when he felt unfairly attacked? *
2:59 One Solution: Giving guidance vs “This is stupid” *
4:11 Jay took it more seriously because he knew this…
4:52 One Solution: How we phrase it instead
5:38 Steps Jay and Lori took
6:35 One Solution: Shared experiences can be risky (so wives consider trying…)
8:07 For the betrayed/traumatized regarding the “Right” way to do this *
8:26 What we tell couples
10:03 Where to subscribe for next season

https://thecouplecure.com – Jay and Lori’s website
https://matthewfray.com – Matthew Fray’s website
https://pornpainhealed.com – Lori’s site for betrayed partners
https://porniskillingme.com – Jay’s site for porn addiction recovery

#betrayal #trauma #relationships #rebuildtrust #marriageadvice

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  • Jay and Lori

    With over 25 years of researching best practices and a high success rate, this is a place to heal and grow your relationship--to recover from betrayal, lying, mistreatment and broken trust. Trauma-Trained Certified Mentors, Jay and Lori Pyatt have a unique approach to porn addiction recovery, the trauma of betrayal, and rebuilding trust to give you hope. Gain tips on Betrayal Trauma, Narcissism/Abuse, Lying/Omitting Truth, Porn Addiction, and ways to rebuild trust and live healthy lives.

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