How to Rebuild Trust When He Feels Attacked (“this is stupid”) – 4.25S

What caused Jay to take all of this more seriously (even if he felt attacked)? And what would cause Matt to say, “This is stupid!” We cover both of those here, in this LAST EPISODE OF THE SEASON.

TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to be taken to that section)

0:00 Intro
0:19 Did Jay feel like doing those things when he felt unfairly attacked? *
2:59 One Solution: Giving guidance vs “This is stupid” *
4:11 Jay took it more seriously because he knew this…
4:52 One Solution: How we phrase it instead
5:38 Steps Jay and Lori took
6:35 One Solution: Shared experiences can be risky (so wives consider trying…)
8:07 For the betrayed/traumatized regarding the “Right” way to do this *
8:26 What we tell couples
10:03 Where to subscribe for next season – Jay and Lori’s website – Matthew Fray’s website – Lori’s site for betrayed partners – Jay’s site for porn addiction recovery

#betrayal #trauma #relationships #rebuildtrust #marriageadvice

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