Other Sources of Betrayal Pain (Video/Podcast) – 2.03S

“Aren’t you over this yet?” “It’s just porn!” “It’s your job to forgive!” Some things told to betrayed who’ve been betrayed don’t help. They only become new sources of pain; new ways we’re betrayed by people we thought we could trust.

Here we cover those things, as well as the origins of the Betrayal Trauma approach.

Topics Covered:
1:02 The beginning of Betrayal Trauma (Origins)

2:37 Why close relationships hurt so much

4:02 Inherent dynamics in the relationship that can cause Relational Trauma

4:22 Different types of betrayal (and what they look like)

5:39 Societal betrayal – The messages she gets from society

7:07 “Whether or not you have a problem with pornography… this other thing IS betrayal.”

8:16 Betrayed by people we turn to for help

9:17 The messages addicts get… AND the messages the partners get

10:20 “I thought we would be a united front…”

VIDEO

PODCAST
The podcast is below. (It may take a couple hours for it to show up on iTunes, etc.)

Author

  • Jay and Lori

    With over 25 years of researching best practices and a high success rate, this is a place to heal and grow your relationship--to recover from betrayal, lying, mistreatment and broken trust. Trauma-Trained Certified Mentors, Jay and Lori Pyatt have a unique approach to porn addiction recovery, the trauma of betrayal, and rebuilding trust to give you hope. Gain tips on Betrayal Trauma, Narcissism/Abuse, Lying/Omitting Truth, Porn Addiction, and ways to rebuild trust and live healthy lives.

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