Here’s our latest episode, which covers:
-What happened to Jay and Lori in 2020, including run-ins with the IRS
-A behind-the-scenes look at how they celebrated their 25th Anniversary
Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
0:22 Preview of Season 3, and Jay’s history with it
1:37 What Lori will be covering/cautioning in Season 3
2:18 For those who’ve been through betrayal trauma (look for the “S”)
2:59 Where were we in 2020?
Hello everyone.
In this episode we cover:
-A quick recap of the season on Betrayal Trauma
-Jay and Lori’s favorite episodes
-This season’s blooper reel
Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
2:50 What this episode is about: a recap & joy (and Lori being stupid : )
0:48 If you’ve been betrayed
1:06 Guys, imagine if your wife…
In the last full episode of Season 2, we talk about a not-so-fun reality that exists in many areas of our nation: Injustice through Systems of Oppression. BUT we also share something you can do if you find yourself on the receiving end of injustice.
This one starts out talking about the partner’s anger at God (it might just be something else). Then we talk about the addict’s anger at God, himself… and the wife. And what he should do if he’s angry with the wife.
This is a continuation of the last episode where we’re covering how Lori responded to those who objected to how we’ve recovered.
This exchange, however, got a little nastier than the last one.
In this episode we give an example of how to respond to someone who is gentle, yet still misunderstanding the issues involved after betrayal.
Submission in marriage is regularly misunderstood, so this episode discusses what God meant it to look like in marriage… and what it might look like after betrayal.
This episode covers THE thing that can make a situation go from bad to traumatic. We also discuss things that can make the process less damaging for you.
This is one we threw together after a movie one night. The room (and Lori) are a mess, but you may find the content helpful. Thanks to the movie Breakthrough and Chrissy Metz for her powerful acting as the inspiration to our video.
This is one we threw together after a movie one night. The room (and Lori) are a mess, but you may find the content helpful. Thanks to the movie Breakthrough and Chrissy Metz for her powerful acting as the inspiration to our video.
Jay and Lori discuss self-deception and lies. Why do betrayers do this? Why did Jay lie to Lori?
They also cover some things you can do to overcome these behaviors and get to a better place.
Lori holds Jay’s feet to the fire on one of his past beliefs. Then we speak directly to the guys.
Women tell me the lying is worse than the sexual integrity issue. Jay goes into the first lies he ever told, and Lori shares what she thought when he’d lie about certain things. He even shared some brand new truth the day of this recording.
Continued from the previous episode where Lori shares what she wishes she’d known the first time the truth came out.
Lori shares what she wishes she’d known about betrayal the first time the truth came out.
Here Jay gives several things he wishes he’d known about the addiction… and the recovery process.
“Aren’t you over this yet?” “It’s just porn!” “It’s your job to forgive!” Some things told to betrayed who’ve been betrayed don’t help. They only become new sources of pain; new ways…
Even when addictive behaviors stop, if other unhealthy behaviors continue then she is still ‘living with …
This is the first episode of Season 2 where we cover the basics of betrayal, but also have a few new…