What if He Never Changes? (why men get defensive over safety and trust) – 4.15S

Are safety and trust the same thing? This video will look at safety and trust from different angles, and it also covers why a guy may get defensive over those topics, and “What if the guy doesn’t change?”

TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to be taken to that section)

0:00 Intro
0:14 Are safety & trust the same?
0:47 Maslow’s Hierarchy & trust
1:53 One Solution: If people prioritize safety & trust AND……
2:47 Lori & Jay’s take on safety & trust
5:17 “But I’m not trying to hurt her” (why men may be defensive about safety & trust)
7:45 What if the guy never changes? *
8:42 Solutions: What does safety look like (practically) when she can’t trust him *
11:37 “If I (did this) I could take care of myself financially”
12:46 In the next episode: Mistreatment or even abuse, and what guys can do instead

https://thecouplecure.com – Jay and Lori’s website
https://matthewfray.com – Matthew Fray’s website
https://pornpainhealed.com – Lori’s site for betrayed partners
https://porniskillingme.com – Jay’s site for porn addiction recovery


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