(Continued from previous episode)
Lori holds Jay’s feet to the fire on one of his past beliefs. Then we speak directly to the guys.
0:27 What Lori’s counselor said about the lying (a character issue)…. and Jay agrees
1:23 One thing that scares guys, and what helps
2:10 A time Lori lied (‘had a fever’), and what changed her
4:01 When guys aren’t tortured by their lies
4:43 Lori confronts Jay on something he said (‘survival’)
5:24 Lori digs deeper on his belief
5:49 Lori speaks up for women (‘Do NOT put that in my husband’s ear!’) / Jay agrees
6:26 The ‘Stealing Kid’
6:46 Lori gets real with Jay again / he admits it doesn’t make sense
7:28 Jay’s thinking as a teen (It was effective, so… )
7:49 What we are NOT saying
8:22 Jay speaks to the guys (If you’re using my words to justify your actions…)
9:09 Something that may help
9:44 Why Lori called Jay on the carpet… and why Jay understands
9:58 What Jay tells the guys
10:19 Jay, “The lie is just convenient… and”
10:35 Lori asks Jay what he would do differently
11:12 On the subject of lying to ourselves, how facing it got some guys free
11:41 … but if the guy remains self-deceived
12:25 ‘Stinking Common!’ (our why)
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