What if He’s NOT ‘All In’? (is he clueless, toxic… or teachable?) – 4.17S

In this conversation with Matthew Fray, we discuss different viewpoints if it appears the guy isn’t ‘all in.’ We also cover one thing Lori HAD to start trusting Jay would do.

TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to be taken to that section)

0:00 Intro
0:15 If he (or she) doesn’t want to be in the relationship anymore… *
3:07 When guys don’t want to change (instead adding lies)
4:55 What if he’s not ‘all in’ *
8:39 “I had to start trusting that he would hurt me”
10:11 One Solution: A different way to “have more faith in people”
10:56 In the next episode: Should you stay or go?

https://thecouplecure.com – Jay and Lori’s website
https://matthewfray.com – Matthew Fray’s website
https://pornpainhealed.com – Lori’s site for betrayed partners
https://porniskillingme.com – Jay’s site for porn addiction recovery

#betrayal
#relationships
#pornaddiction
#marriageadvice

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    With over 25 years of researching best practices and a high success rate, this is a place to heal and grow your relationship--to recover from betrayal, lying, mistreatment and broken trust. Trauma-Trained Certified Mentors, Jay and Lori Pyatt have a unique approach to porn addiction recovery, the trauma of betrayal, and rebuilding trust to give you hope. Gain tips on Betrayal Trauma, Narcissism/Abuse, Lying/Omitting Truth, Porn Addiction, and ways to rebuild trust and live healthy lives.

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