Continued from the previous episode where Lori shares what she wishes she’d known the first time the truth came out.
***TRIGGER WARINING*** The section from 6:36 to 9:36 could trigger people whose marriages aren’t in a good place right now.
0:54 Why we speak from a sexual integrity standpoint
1:11 She wishes she’d known: “That it could never satisfy him.”
2:04 Which is also how involvement in porn can get into some scary areas.
2:28 At first the man might be horrified by the porn he finds, but then…
2:48 The parts of our brain that are horrified are close to the parts of our brain that get turned on
3:42 She wishes she’d known: “How important boundaries were… and how difficult they would be to maintain”
4:15 Jay’s take on boundaries
5:45 When a woman finds her voice, that’s when things can ‘get hairy.’
***TRIGGER WARNING FROM 6:36 TO 9:36***
6:36 She wishes she’d known: “He could make me his one-and-only”
7:22 Jay speaks on this
7:53 ‘Guys, please understand, she does want to know you”
8:10 She wishes she’d known: “That marriage could be this great”
8:45 What helps Jay stay sober
9:28 She wishes she’d known: “That it would be worth it”
9:36 How to download Lori’s free guide, 7 Tools Women Rarely Find for things you can do right now to start healing more quickly.
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