We all mess up, but after betrayal trauma and lies, but if an addict wants to rebuild trust, they have to be prompt about making things right. This episode covers a few techniques to make this an easier process. It also covers how Lori knows Jay’s character changed.
Episode Summary:
-Step 10 of the 12-Steps
-How to avoid the slippery slope
-One way to rewire the addicted brain
Timestamps:
0:00 Intro to Step 10 (Continuing to take a personal inventory and when I’m wrong…) / This should be done daily
2:08 One way to do this and why***
3:33 Another way to do this / Thing stopped working for Jay
4:27 When you are wrong (do this), because when you’re mature enough…***
6:21 The addict takes their own inventory, not someone else’s (why it’s different for the betrayed partner)
8:18 “Stop whining, guys” / What Jesus said
9:43 A third way is asking for feedback / It’s a process
10:41 For the betrayed spouse / How Lori missed it when Jay asked for feedback
12:20 One benefit of this step / What shows Jay’s character change***
13:39 When to do all the 12-Steps again? / Applicable Scriptures
15:52 Keep track of victories to avoid the slippery slope
18:18 One way to rewire the addicted brain
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